the-shadow-of-stars: Paths taken and not.  Aaron Minyard.  Sometimes he wishes he never sent that letter. Sometimes he wishes he never heard the conversation between the officer and his mother. Sometimes he wishes the officer never saw him. Sometimes he wishes for his brother to love him. But most times he wishes his twin was there…

What if Andrew and Neil met whilst Andrew was still stuck with Drake?

burningfairytales: NONNY OH MY GOD I HAVE SO MANY FEELINGS ABOUT THIS OKAY. Okay, so, I’ve actually been thinking about a similar scenario, that I talked about with the sin squad before, and I know that it’s not what you’re asking for, but I need to share it? Imagine, for a moment, Neil somehow gets…

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expect-the-greatest:

Bruh

What the hell?

Niggas out here trappin women

Then wonder how your ass got burned

what the fuck…

I’ve had a dude do that before. that shit is terrifying. Dude went across the room like he typically would to get one. Came back and I didn’t know that he didn’t have one until he pulled out.

I FLIPPED. Cried all the way home. Cried for days. Got tested. Bought the morning after pill. Seriously, fuck dudes that do this. There should be laws against it.

There ARE laws against this. It’s called rape by deception or fraudulent rape and basically, it’s anytime the conditions of your consent are compromised. In a situation like this, you consented to protected sex. By having sex in a way you did not consent to, a crime WAS committed and he could be charged if any physical effects like pregnancy or STD occurred. Remember, ANY SEXUAL ACTIVITY YOU DON’T CONSENT TO IS RAPE. 

If a guy does this, it’s rape. Call the cops. Ruin his life since he has no problem risking yours. Make him fucking learn. Rapists belong in jail. Rape by deception is rape, not a funny “meme”. 

This is incredibly important for everyone to see!! EVERYONE

yes YOU NEED THIS ON YOUR DASH EVERYONE

y’all should see this, just so you know.

Call the cops.

HERE is a list of crisis hotlines for rape and abuse. Most of them are 24/7 hotlines. 

HERE is a list of crisis hotlines by state. 

In addition to giving you the compassion your rapist clearly won’t, they might be able to advise you on possible next steps: what to tell the police, how to get a test done.

Stay safe, everyone. 

This is so disrespectful. This is literally the conversation that fuckboys be havin with each other and giggling about. Crucify a dude that tries to do this to you.

This is how men talk to each other about us. This is how men talk to each other about us.

Always reblog

my time volunteering for a sexual health clinic and working for one has definitely made me aware of how often it happens.

to quote a counselor: “it happens all. the. time”

andrew3minyard: can we just take a moment to discuss the parallel between aaron and andrew both killing for each other??  andrew killed aarons mother to save him from the continuance of lifelong abuse and torment. he planned it out in cold calculation and waited until he had the perfect opportunity. he made a promise to…

A message about boundary violation

punch-your-buns: I had a friend in high school and his favorite thing was to cuddle on the couch and fall asleep while watching a movie and I didn’t mind it so much until I started dating someone and my friend asked to do it again and I said no because I’m dating someone and I…